Sexual desires
by Sam Zanahar
Version 2.3, March 2010
Lean back. Close your eyes. Try to remember the best sexual fantasies you ever had. Voila, this is where you want to be.
From a philosophical perspective, some things in life are absolute: one's sexual desires. To pursue them is the ultimate goal in his life. Whatever they are.
The stronger a man's or woman's sexual desires the luckier he or she is.
Leaning back, closing your eyes, and no pressing sexual desires appear?
Something's wrong!
The first precondition for a satisfying lifestyle, as well as to avert depression and obesity, and actually, for overall health, and yes, for happiness per se, are strong sexual urges.
No sexual urges, and you are flat. No sexual urges, and you won't feel what you are living for.
Sexual desires are absolute. From a philosophical perspective, their rightness can never be questioned. Whatever form they take, for the person's in whose mind they appear, the satisfaction of precisely these desires is the closest he or she can get to having a purpose in life.
In some countries, specific sexual practices are considered criminal or against the order of nature. In Malaysia, those practicing oral sex are threatened with a jail sentence and caning.
I am a law-obeying person. I recommend the same to any other man or woman. When my sexual desires conflict with the rules of the land, I go somewhere else.
But the sexual desires themselves are not negotiable.
Sexual philosophy
Sexual satisfaction and death
Optimal love and sex, and a gentle death, instead of a god (1.4)
Reader contribution on morphine
German: Optimale Liebe und optimaler Sex, und ein sanfter Tod, statt eines Gottes (1.0)
Italian: Ottimi orgasmi e una morte delicata, invece di Dio (1.0)
Italian: Ottimi orgasmi e una morte delicata, invece di Dio (1.3)
Advice for women
Advice for women in poor
countries
My advice to young women in Third World cities (1.3)
Dutch: Mijn advies aan jonge vrouwen in derde wereld
steden (1.0)
What is your virginity? (1.0)
Simplified Chinese: 贞操与女人 (1.0)
Bahasa Indonesia: Apakah itu Keperawanan Anda? (1.0)
Advice for men
Competing for sexual success
Sexual competition (1.0)
Competing rationally in an irrational world (1.2)
About the author
Biographical note (4.1)
Introduction to my work (1.3)
How I view myself (1.6)
Drafts and version numbers (1.3)
To write or not to write (1.5)
Sam Zanahar
Via del Biscione, 6 Rome, 00186 Italy
Last updated: March 16, 2010