Sexual philosophy
Sexual satisfaction and death
Optimal love and sex, and a gentle death, instead of a god (1.4)
  German: Optimale Liebe und optimaler Sex, und ein sanfter Tod, statt eines Gottes (1.0)
  Italian: Ottimi orgasmi e una morte delicata, invece di Dio (1.0)
  Italian: Ottimi orgasmi e una morte delicata, invece di Dio (1.3)
The idea of a gentle death (1.1)
Consciousness and cognition (2.0)
The meaning of life (1.5)
Sexual desires (2.1)
The metaphysics of sex (1.4)
The pursuit of sexual joy (4.2)
The Marquis de Sade (1.4)

The suicide option
Committing suicide (3.4)
Better alive or dead? (3.2)
No benefit (1.5)
Making sense (2.3)
  Spanish: El Sentido de la Vida (1.0)
  Archive: Making sense (1.2)
Drugs (1.3)

Elusive joy
Nature, our enemy (1.2)
Nature wants us unhappy (1.2)
Nature depriving us (1.2)
Engineering happiness (2.1)
Neuropharmacology - the alternative route to happiness (2.1)

The emerging irrelevance of aging
The other “eternal“ life (1.1)
  German: Das andere “ewige“ Leben (1.1)
  Italian L' Altra Vita "Eterna" (1.1)
  Slovenian Drugacno "vecno" zivljenje (1.1)
  Simplified Chinese: 新人类生命的延长 (1.1)
What medical science will achieve before the other “eternal“ life (1.0)
Youth instead of immortality (1.2)
The philosophical relevance of cosmetic surgery (2.0)
  Italian: L'aspetto filosofico della chirurgia estetica (2.0)
Exciting prospects for women, even as they get older (1.2)
Engineering youth (2.1)
Anesthesia and cosmetic surgery (1.0)

Sexual market value
Appraise your value (1.1)
  Simplified Chinese: 鉴定你的价值 (1.1)
Asian sexual market value (1.2)
  Simplified Chinese: 亚洲女性的性市值 (1.2)
Protect your sexual market value (1.0)
Know your enemies, and your prey (2.0)
Your most important decision (1.3)
  Spanish: Tu decision mas importante (1.0)
  German: Deine wichtigste Entscheidung(1.0)

Sexual morals
Moral values (3.3)
  German: Moralische Werte (3.3)
Disease and sexual morals (2.0)
A dialectical view of morals (4.0)
Morals and sexual arrangements (1.0)
Animal rights and morals (1.0)

Political activism
A political career (3.0)
The new feminism (1.0)
Honesty (2.0)
  Archive: Political strategy (1.0)
  Archive: Activism and solidarity (1.0)

Advice for women
Advice for women in poor countries
My advice to young women in Third World cities (1.3)
  Dutch: Mijn advies aan jonge vrouwen in derde wereld
  steden
(1.0)
What is your virginity? (1.0)
  Simplified Chinese: 贞操与女人 (1.0)
  Bahasa Indonesia: Apakah itu Keperawanan Anda? (1.0)
Advice for Chinese women (1.0)

Addressing intellectually advanced women
What are intellectually advanced women? (1.0)
The bisexual ideal (1.2)
What women want (1.0)
  Italian: Quello che le donne vogliono (1.0)
What a woman needs in life (1.0)
In praise of unfaithfulness (1.4)
  German: Gelobt sei die Untreue (1.0)
  Italian: Elogio del línfedelta (1.3)
  Slovenian Hvalnica nezvestobi (1.3)
Why I don't need many females? (2.5)
China and female sexuality (1.0)
  Simplified Chinese: 中国与女性性欲望 (1.0)
Vacancy for female editor (1.1)

Advice for men
Competing for sexual success
Sexual competition (1.0)
Competing rationally in an irrational world (1.2)

Improving sexual function
Pharmacological enhancement (1.3)

About the author
Biographical note (4.1)
Introduction to my work (1.3)
How I view myself (1.6)
Drafts and version numbers (1.3)
To write or not to write (1.5)

The emerging irrelevance of aging
The other “eternal“ life (1.2)
  German: Das andere “ewige“ Leben (1.1)
  Italian L' Altra Vita "Eterna" (1.1)
  Slovenian Drugacno "vecno" zivljenje (1.1)
  Simplified Chinese: 新人类生命的延长 (1.1)
What medical science will achieve before the other “eternal“ life (1.0)
Youth instead of immortality (1.2)
The philosophical relevance of cosmetic surgery (2.1)
  Italian: L'aspetto filosofico della chirurgia estetica (2.0)
Exciting prospects for women, even as they get older (1.2)
Engineering youth (2.1)

Surgery procedures
Wrong decisions (1.2)
Anesthesia and cosmetic surgery (1.0)
Hair transplants (1.0)
Which surgical procedures in which sequence (1.0)
Tummy tuck under local anesthesia (1.0)
Efficient Botox in Bangkok (1.0)
What you can expect from fillers (1.0)
Disfiguration from cosmetic surgery (1.0)

Cosmetic surgery in Bangkok
Bangkok recommendations (1.0)
Overcharging foreigners for hair transplantations and other cosmetic surgery procedures in Bangkok (1.0)
Prices, Full facelift (1.0)

Enhancing female genital beauty
Recommended and not recommended cosmetic surgery procedures for female genital beauty (part 1) (1.0)
Recommended and not recommended cosmetic surgery procedures for female genital beauty (part 2) (1.0)

 


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Sexual competition


Version 1.0, August 2007

Both men and women are in constant competition for the best sexual partners. It has always been that way. However, in as much as more and more people realize that optimal sexual experience, followed by a gentle death, are the only meaningful content in life, we can expect the competition to become more pronounced in the future.

For me as a straight man, other straight men are my competitors. They have the same interests as I have, so I have an easy time giving them advice (I know exactly what they want). But as they are my competitors, and potentially impact negatively on my competitive advantage, I must have a good reason before I aide them. The membership fees that I collect from men do constitute this good reason.

The interests of straight women are opposed to mine (they seek men, I seek women), and therefore are never in conflict with me. I can only benefit from helping those who read my articles to compete better. Therefore, my advice for women is basically free of charge.

For both men and women, the likelihood of their competitive success depends on two factors: their capability to compete successfully (their smartness), and their sexual market value.

From the time humans lived in civilizations, they have created social orders that modified what otherwise is, or would have been, a free market economy of sexual competition.

Social orders designed by men, for example in the form of repressive religions, placed heavy limitations on the female competition for sexual partners. Men claimed the right to decide on the behalf of women who their sexual partners should be, and strongly limited their number.

In a free market economy for sexual partners, the best men would appropriate the largest number, and the best female sexual partners. Likewise, such a free market economy benefits, in exactly the same manner, the women of the highest sexual market value.

The best are always a minority; this lies in the nature of the word and what it describes. The best are always faced with the fact, that the vast majority of people (the rest) are envious and would like to have rules introduce that assure that they also get what they believe should be their fair share (one man for every woman, one woman for every man).

I am an elitist, not a populist. I want the best women have the best success in finding the men of the best sexual market value (which hopefully includes me), and I strive to have sexual relationships with the best women.

This is the core of my existence, and it is this, that lies at the bottom of all my work as an author.


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