Men and men have the same interests, but are natural enemies because they compete for the same resources. Men and women often have opposing interests but are attracted to each other because they are the objects, and conduits, of their desires, sexual and otherwise. I cannot serve men and women with the same advice. Most of my previous articles were advice for men. This one is advice for women.
No other women anywhere in the world preserve their beauty as well as do East Asian women, and nowhere in the world preserve women their sexual market value as well as they do in Europe.
East Asian women can be in their 50s and look as if they are in their 30s, even without cosmetic surgery. To look as if they are in their 30s at any age below their 60s is a realistic perspective for Asian women who do undergo cosmetic surgery procedures, especially if they avoid pregnancies and childbirths.
In Europe, women retain a sexual market values until they are in their 50s, even if they do not look as if they are in their 30s. European men, especially if they have never been to Asia, naturally assume that they should mate with women who appear to be their own age. Thus, men in their 30s will aim for, and marry, women who appear to be in their 30s, and men in their 50s will aim for, and marry, women who appear in their 50s.
This is something you will find in Europe through all social classes. Thus, when Prince Charles of the UK became a widower after the death of Princess Diana, he didn't look for another young princess but married a woman who was already the right age for him 20 years earlier.
That men in their 50s would aim for, and marry, women in their early 20s, is something Europeans only learn in East Asia.
Because in East Asia, especially Southeast Asia, men of all ages aim for women in their 20s, Asian women, once they are through their 20s, experience a much faster decline in their sexual market value than women in Europe.
For centuries, this condition has shaped the outlook of Asian women differently than that of women in Europe. From the age they are girls, women in East Asia are told by their mothers that they should marry not too late, as otherwise, they will not find a husband at all.
In Thailand, Malaysia, Indonesia, and the Philippines, until just a few decades ago, girl would get married between 14 and 16. Now it may be between 17 and 20, which is still considerably earlier than in Europe.
In Northeast Asia, before World War II, girls would also get married off in their mid-teens, though now, especially in the cities, an age in between 22 and 26 is considered appropriate.
But still, for.women in Northeast Asia, the window of opportunity to enter a lifelong partnership with a suitable man remains open only for a limited period of time, just a few years. For many young women who do not have a bridegroom ready on hand, or for those who are too selective, or have vefry high expectations, this situation spells considerable stress.
By contrast, women in Europe worry much less about finding a husband in their 20s. If they were not to find a man in his 20s when they are in their 20s themselves, they may find a man in his 30s when they are in their 30s, or a man in his 40s when they are in their 40s.
Because men in Europe will usually look for a partner of the same age bracket, women in Europe do not feel that they have to rush their partner choice.
It is obvious, then, that women in Europe preserve their sexual market value better than women in Asia.
In a free-market economy of sexual relationships which is an offshot of the general globalisation, it is logical, and, in my view, totally acceptable that every person, man or woman, with sufficient intellect would locate himself or herself in that corner of the globe where his or her sexual market value is best.
Thus, it makes sense when men from Europe or North America migrate to Third World countries where their own sexual market value ranks above that of local men.
And for the women of many Third World countries, the smartest decision of a lifetime may well be to migrate to Europe, where they experience an enormous boost of their sexual market value, and to do so by means of a European man.
Once in Europe, you may as well ditch the man who served as a conduit for your migration effort, as subsequently, when already in Europe, other men of much better sexual market value will become available, even if the migrating women has already given birth (European men expect all women to have lost their virginity well before the age of 18).
Especially Chinese, Korean, and Japanese women, as they preserve their beauty better than European women, experience an enormous gain in sexual market value, even when they are in their 50s. As a rule of thumb, any European man would guess the age of a Northeast Asian women at least 10 years younger than she actually is. And with appropriate cosmetic surgery, a Chinese, Korean, or Japanese woman in her 50s can, in Europe, easily pass as 20 years younger, and be courted, and even married, by sexually attractive men in their 30s.
For East Asian women, this knowledge has far-reaching implications. It means that there is no rush to get married early, even not in their late 20s if a suitable man cannot be found. The main objective must be to migrate to Europe, either with the help of a European man who is available in the home country of the East Asian woman, or through her own economic success. Aiming for a local man always is a worse deal.
